Getting pretty sick of being told to shut up and stop talking about *insert -ism here*. Not going to stop talking about it. No, talking about it does not make it worse. The people who say and do oppressive things are the only ones who make it worse.
I have white lady privilege going on for myself and I’m not going to shut up about that either. Not going to stop asking people to recognize their own privilege . Not going to put up with “allies” who apologize for racist,classist,sexist,ableist behaviors. Done.